We lose a lot of joy because we are unwilling to die to our own ways. The wisdom and desires we so desperately and foolishly hold on to and grip, will not bring the freedom of letting go and falling into the arms of God.

God's wisdom may seem to be foolishness to this world, but the wisdom of this world is a blind foolishness that hasn't ever seen the world, glory, or beauty.

The comfort of the devestating message of sin

If we fail to make sin devastating in order to sooth someones ego, we fail to comfort the soul. For when we flatter and pamper, we give a sense of self-ability and self-worth, an attitude that we can measure up, that we are ok in of ourselves. We start looking to and relying on ourselves. Yes, that is insane, because the fact is we can't measure up. We can never attain self worth, not truly and fully. We know this in the deepest parts of who we are, that we are not totally ok.

The comfort is that sin is devastating and we are helpless and worthless. There is nothing we can do. . . . And we don't have to. .. . .Jesus has done it all. Through the work and worth of Jesus, we gain more for more than self-worth when we come to Him. We gain the love of God.

So let us not be shocked or devastated by the depths of our messed-upness, nor make light of sin, for we have a glorious Gospel that is bigger than the deepest depths of sin. Let that depth be apart of our speech.

Come . . .

Have you ever wanted to be punished when you’ve done something wrong? Let’s say you’ve sinned against God, and then go to prayer and confess, and then there is nothing, your just forgiven. Or you have greatly and significantly hurt a relationship and they respond with your forgiven and that’s it, everything is back to normal. And then we feel awkward and feel like we need to do something. We need to make it right or at least suffer a little. We want to feel like we have paid for our wrongs. We have this sense of justice that nags us. We know justice needs to be met.

In Isaiah 58, God says,

And let him return to the Lord,
And He will have compassion on him,
And to our God,

For He will abundantly pardon.
⁸ “For My thoughts are not your thoughts,
Nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord.
⁹ “For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
So are My ways higher than your ways
And My thoughts than your thoughts.

God calls us to come as we are, filthy sinners, and to enjoy the richest of fare. We don’t pay for it with our own pecuniary resources of holiness. We cannot make things right or bring justice. We cannot pay for our wrongs. But through Jesus Christ, God calls . . .

Ho! Every one who thirsts, come to the waters;
And you who have no money come, buy and eat.
Come, buy wine and milk
Without money and without cost.
² “Why do you spend money for what is not bread,
And your wages for what does not satisfy?
Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good,
And delight yourself in abundance.

Cease striving, know that Jesus Christ is God, and behold the works of the Lord. Justice was met through the cross of Jesus Christ. Jesus took on the punishment we deserved. He filled both our need for justice as well as God's justice. He has reconciled us to God. He makes wars to cease. And He calls out to us, "Come all who are weary and burdened, come find the justice you are looking for, come find rest from you labor." He will be exalted and bring a people to Himself among the nations

Psalm 31, is a song describing God's reaction to the sinner. He states that in the midst of our sin, we should, "Be not like a horse or a mule, without understanding,which must be curbed with bit and bridle, or it will not stay near you." Often in our sin, we don't want to come to Him, we are like a stubborn mule. But in His tender love, He cries out, while it is called Today, "Come."

Leadership means you have no rights

In leadership, we lose are rights to ourselves and have a responsibility to become servants. Our duty is to pursue what is best for those we serve. This is how God leads us. God pursues out best. Every leader is under this truth, to serve others under God, who pursues are best. And because of this, leaders cannot pursue our own vision. They have no rights to themselves. Leaders are responsible to die to themselves and to lay our lives down as living sacrifices, and let God’s vision rule in their service to others.

The duty of joy

Not pursuing goodness with all our might do to fear of legalism keeps us from God’s riches just as does finding our worth in pursuing law and perfectionism. Both come from trying to find our worth in ourselves. Both are dangerous because they come from a lack of faith in the worth and work of Jesus.